What to do with storms – a Christian solution to big problems

What do you do when a storm hits your life? You may get a bad medical report, or get fired from your job or maybe a close relationship is in trouble. For most people, when they encounter a storm, they react with fear, even panic, sending them into a maelstrom of worry as they imagine all sorts of harm and negative things happening to them. When we face a storm in life, we often worry about danger and sometimes even death, worried that we can’t cope, worried that we’ll drown.

But how did Jesus react to storms? To find out, let’s read the famous account of Jesus walking on water found in Matthew 14:22-33:

22 Immediately Jesus made the disciples get into the boat and go on ahead of him to the other side, while he dismissed the crowd. 23 After he had dismissed them, he went up on a mountainside by himself to pray. Later that night, he was there alone, 24 and the boat was already a considerable distance from land, buffeted by the waves because the wind was against it.

25 Shortly before dawn Jesus went out to them, walking on the lake. 26 When the disciples saw him walking on the lake, they were terrified. “It’s a ghost,” they said, and cried out in fear.

27 But Jesus immediately said to them: “Take courage! It is I. Don’t be afraid.”

28 “Lord, if it’s you,” Peter replied, “tell me to come to you on the water.”

29 “Come,” he said.

Then Peter got down out of the boat, walked on the water and came toward Jesus. 30 But when he saw the wind, he was afraid and, beginning to sink, cried out, “Lord, save me!”

31 Immediately Jesus reached out his hand and caught him. “You of little faith,” he said, “why did you doubt?”

32 And when they climbed into the boat, the wind died down. 33 Then those who were in the boat worshiped him, saying, “Truly you are the Son of God.”


Notice that when Jesus faced a storm, he wasn’t afraid. Instead of being scared of the storm, he saw it as an opportunity to perform a miracle. When Jesus walked into a storm, instead of drowning, he amazingly, miraculously, walked on water.

As Christians, we are called to be like Jesus. When we face a storm, instead of being scared of drowning, we should see it as an opportunity to experience God’s miraculous power – as an opportunity to walk on water. Our storms are opportunities for God to do something amazing in our lives, as he empowers us to go through our problems with a grace that will amaze us and the world. So when you face big problems, when you face storms – don’t be afraid. Pray that God will do something amazing in your life and walk on water!


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How to deal with closed doors – failures, setbacks and disappointments

What should you do when you face a challenge, when you experience a failure or setback, when a door slams shut in your face?

I was inspired to write this post after I experienced a setback in my career. A web writing project that I was looking forward to working on fell through because the client decided not to hire me as they felt they didn’t have enough material for me to work on yet. This led me to reflect on how to process failure and setbacks. I’ve experienced many challenges in my career, and the failure of the project to get the green light led me to ask God what he wanted to teach me through this.

One thing I asked God is that if God’s favour is with me, shouldn’t my life be filled with open doors? Surely if God is for me, I should be able to experience eternal success, running through one open door after another, prospering in everything I do? God told me that that wasn’t how the Christian life is like, for even when you have God’s favour, you will experience closed doors.

What Christ promises though, is that even when we face many failures, in the end a door will open and it will be better than all the other closed doors. This fact should bring us peace and joy, and give us hope amidst the failures that God will give us the victory in the long run.

Christ spoke to me and He told me that the setbacks are a test. Will you react in the flesh or will you react in the Spirit when you experience a challenge? When you react in the flesh – which is the natural and automatic first reaction – you feel fear, disappointment, self-pity, depression – you feel like giving up. But when you process your setback positively, activating your faith to believe that Christ will open a better door for you, when you react in the Spirt, you will feel joy and peace. The setback won’t bother you or get you down. Instead, you give Christ praise in advance for the final victory and the fact that He will open a better door for you.

God allows challenges in our lives because they have many benefits. Challenges increase and grow your faith. You develop patience and endurance while waiting for God to open a new door for you. This forces you to be persistent, as you go knocking on multiple door after door, having the faith that God will eventually open a better door for you at the end. This persistence strengthens your character.

When we experience a failure or setback, our first reaction usually is to worry that it will harm us. But Christ will use what Satan meant to hurt you to promote you as disappointments can transform your character and provide you with many spiritual benefits.

So don’t worry when God closes a door. If you stay in faith and patiently, persistently go knocking on other doors until one opens, God will swing open wide a new door that will be far better than the one that was closed. Then you will give praise to God for His deliverance, overjoyed that He has turned your test into a testimony.  So stir up your faith and don’t be discouraged by the closed door. God will surely open a better door for you if you wait faithfully with patient expectation!


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Big problem, big victory through Christ

Problems precede the pay-off

There’s something in my life that has been causing me stress (and the fear that accompanies it). It’s like a problem that looms like a mountain before me, casting a scary shadow over my existence. I try to think of ways which I can defeat the problem, but sometimes all I can hear is the Devil taunting me, “You’ll never find a solution to the problem. Everything you try will fail. This problem will destroy your life. You’ll be poor, sick, broke, homeless and starve to death.”

I began to pray to God about my huge problem, and as I processed my obstacles prayerfully, God revealed to me a powerful insight. Why do we have big problems in our lives? If God is loving and powerful, that is, if God is good and God is great, why doesn’t he just bless us with a life with no problems, a life journey that is a path strewn with rose petals, its softness and fragrance making us feel joyful all the time.

God spoke to me and told me that he allows us to face big problems so we can experience the joy of great victory when he delivers us from that problem. In Romans 8, God promises to work all things for our good and that we might be more than conquerors through his love. The bigger the problem, the bigger the victory; problems precede the pay-off. Think of David versus Goliath. The giant was what enabled a small shepherd boy to experience a great victory over an opponent much bigger than him, by striking the huge opponent dead with just a tiny stone.

I felt very comforted by this revelation. However, it’s still a struggle. God spoke to me and told me that I had to learn to accept and appreciate a life that had big problems, instead of always longing that my life would be perfect, where everything went right and nothing went wrong. To not have an enemy always threatening to destroy me. It’s hard to accept that life inevitably will have problems because that’s God’s will. But there’s comfort and joy in faith, in the rock-solid belief that no matter how bad things get, God will always rescue us and cause us to triumph.


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Blessing in the famine

One of the most encouraging things you can come to know when you face difficult circumstances is that you can be prosper even in a tough environment.

The Bible tells us that we can be blessed in a famine, even when our circumstances are barren, we can thrive and not just survive.

In Psalm 37:18-19 (NLT), it is written:
Day by day the LORD takes care of the innocent and they will receive an inheritance that lasts forever. They will not be disgraced in hard times; even in famine they will have more than enough.

Even when you are in the desert, God will provide streams to refresh you.

In Isaiah 43:19, God says:

See, I am doing a new thing!
Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?
I am making a way in the wilderness
and streams in the wasteland.

While we are walking in the wilderness, God will guide us, smoothen the path before us and make a way for us through the barren land.

In Isaiah 35:6-7, the prophet says that:

Water will gush forth in the wilderness
and streams in the desert.

 The burning sand will become a pool,
the thirsty ground bubbling springs.
In the haunts where jackals once lay,
grass and reeds and papyrus will grow.

You might be going through a tough time now, but take heart, your difficult time is not permanent. The Bible has encouraging words for all those who are struggling with hard circumstances, who are facing material or spiritual or emotional famine. You might be in the desert, but God will bless the desert and cause water, grass and fragrant flowers to bloom in your wilderness. You will experience blessing, joy and abundance as God turns your desert into a garden. The key is to stay in faith and not give up. Though your surroundings may seem bleak, keep your eyes focused on God, have faith that He will turn your trial into a blessing and wait patiently for His deliverance.


God is for you

Have you ever been to a football match?

One of the reasons why people go to a live match, instead of watching it on TV, is that they want to be there to cheer their team. They leap around, wave their hands, shout and holler, all to show that they’re behind their team one hundred percent.

Well, the good news for us is that God is like one of those football fans when it comes to us. In Romans 8:31, Paul tells us that God is for us.

Isn’t that amazing? Sometimes, it’s easy to think that God is a stern Judge, just waiting for us to slip up and make a mistake so that He can condemn us. But the Bible tells us that’s the opposite of what God is like. God is for us. God is our biggest fan.

God is for us. This means God wants us to win.

It means God looks out for what we’re doing right, not what we’re doing wrong.

It means that God loves us unconditionally, and He cheers us on no matter how bad things get.

God is not waiting for you to fail. God is our biggest supporter. God is always rooting for us.

And because God is for us, we will always win.

Let God take you to a higher level

Are you facing a challenge today?

Let me encourage you. Beyond that challenge lies a victory. God wants to use your difficulties to promote you.

Many times, when you set out to pursue your dreams, when you become determined to make progress towards reaching your goals, you will face opposition. When you start going after your God-given dreams, realize that Satan will not just roll out the red carpet for you and leave you unopposed. Often, when you face hard times, it is because you are on the right track and your victory is just around the corner.

What was meant for your harm, God will use it for your good, to bring you to a higher level. God wants to turn your set-back into a stepping stone.

If you persevere, if you don’t get discouraged, after you’ve passed the test, God will promote you.

The darkest night often comes before the brightest light.

Joseph faced a dark night when he was falsely accused of rape by Potiphar’s wife and sent to prison. But it was in prison that he met Pharaoh’s cup-bearer, who told Pharaoh about Joseph’s gift in interpreting dreams. This led to Joseph being promoted to Prime Minister of Egypt. Joseph’s time in the dark dungeon led him to being promoted to the peak of Pharaoh’s palace.

Daniel faced a dark night when he was thrown into a den of lions for refusing to worship Nebuchadnezzar’s idol. Yet God closed the mouths of the lions, protecting Daniel and the king was so impressed with this miracle that he promote Daniel to the top post in the land.

Christ faced a dark night during his crucifixion. He was whipped, mocked, betrayed, nailed to a cross and died an excruciatingly painful death. Yet three days later, Christ was raised to life. His darkest night became the most life-giving day.

So today, if you face a challenge, encourage yourself by telling yourself that God has victory in store for you. Your darkest defeat will lead to your brightest victory.

Your attitude determines your success

How you fare in life is often determined more by your attitude than your circumstance.

Your attitude is powerful – it can promote you or destroy you. You attitude can either help or hinder your success. It will determine whether you can rise from the pit to the palace, or whether you can become a victim of defeat or a student of success.

Some people find opportunity in every difficulty, while others find difficulty in every opportunity. Your attitude determines whether adversity makes or breaks you. Your attitude determines how you view life, whether you see trouble as an opportunity or an obstacle.

The good news is that you can choose your attitude. Your attitude is not just a feeling and does not need to be dependent on good or bad circumstances. You are responsible for choosing your attitude.

Your attitude colours the way you view life. When you have a positive attitude, your future looks bright and your present becomes more enjoyable too. People who are successful have learnt to use setbacks as stepping-stones, while unsuccessful people have used them as excuses. Ten percent of life is made up of what happens to you, while the other 90 percent is how you respond to what happens to you.

In order to have the right attitude, you need to make small adjustments to your thinking. Your mind is like a radio that needs to be tuned. If you don’t tune the radio, all you can hear is static. But by jiggling the knob on the radio a little to the left, a little to the right, you can tune the radio to the right station and enjoy hearing the music come through loud and clear. In the same way, we have to adjust our thought waves like radio waves and adjust our thinking so we face life with the right attitude. You don’t need to make a big adjustment to your thinking, sometimes just a small shift in perspective can lead to a big change in your life.

25 ways to win with people by John Maxwell

I recently finished reading John Maxwell’s “25 Ways to Win with People”, which I found to be very helpful in my quest to improve my relationships.

There are 25 points in the book but I wanted to share two insights that made the most impact on me:

1)      Make the person feel like a million bucks

We naturally tend to want to make ourselves feel good, but if we want to attract other people, we should shift our focus from making ourselves feel good to making others feel good about themselves.

Maxwell’s advice got me brainstorming about the ways I could make the person I’m talking to feel like a million bucks. Some ideas I had:

a)      Listen with full attention. Be genuinely interested, utterly fascinated by what your friend is saying. Ask questions, nod your head, listen with rapt focus, be enthralled by what the person you are talking to has to say.

b)      Listen to understand, not to respond. I’m usually afraid of silence in conversation, so my natural reaction is to think of what I can say when my friend finishes talking. The problem with this is since I am thinking of what to say instead of fully turning all my attention to listening to what my friend is saying, I’m not giving my friend my full focus. I’ve resolved to let go of my fear of silence and give my full attention to listening to what my friend has to say, putting my focus on understanding instead of responding.

c)       Compliment others. During conversations, I now try to actively, aggressively seek for any opportunity to praise the person I am talking with. I especially try to compliment my friends in front of others, as the feel-good factor of a compliment increases exponentially when you praise the person in public.

2)      Let people know that you need them

Before I read Maxwell’s advice to let people know that I need them, I always felt bad about needing people. As a single, I have a fear of being lonely. I actively seek out friendships because of my fear of loneliness, yet often I feel guilty about making friends to relieve my loneliness because I feel that my loneliness is a weakness that I have to overcome, that I shouldn’t depend on people to help prevent the pain of being alone. It was a relief to read Maxwell’s advice, he tells us that people like to feel that they are needed, they like leaders to tell them – “I can’t do it without you”. Maxwell writes – “Leaders can become great, only when they realize that they are the ones who need people…let them know you helped…It’s not a sign of weakness to let others know you value them. It’s a sign of security and strength. When you’re honest about your need for help, specific with others about the value they add, and inclusive of others as you build a team to do something bigger than you are, everybody wins.” Maxwell’s advice has inspired me to tell my friends that I need them to help me overcome my loneliness and made me feel comfortable about reaching out to others for help when I’m feeling lonely.

What to do when you don’t know how to achieve your dreams?

We all have dreams in our hearts, desires that burn deeply in our soul.

Maybe you’re dreaming of a job which you enjoy, that pays you well too. Or maybe you have a sickness that you’ve been praying a long time for healing. Perhaps you’re lonely but you can’t seem to find that soul-mate you’ve been longing for.

We all have dreams and too many of us give up on them because the dreams seem too difficult to attain. Maybe you’ve tried to pursue that dream and failed, or you’ve waited for a long time and don’t seem to have made any progress. You’re stuck in a mediocre life – you’ve settled for just surviving instead of thriving.

One of the main reasons why we don’t pursue our dreams is because we don’t know what to do. We look at our circumstances and it looks so bleak we don’t know how things are ever going to change for the better. We feel stuck and trapped. All the doors seem to be closed and there seems to be no way out. Maybe the doctor tells you you’ll never be cured and you just have to endure your sickness. Or you just got laid off and are worried you won’t be able to get a good job because of the bad economy. Perhaps you find it hard to make new friends and so feel you’ll never meet the person of your dreams.

I’ve got an encouraging word for you today. Don’t give up. Even if you don’t know how to attain your dreams, God will create a path for you to reach your dreams. God specializes in doing the impossible. You might not know, but God knows. Trust in God’s guidance, a guidance that often leads us through surprising and unexpected paths. You may be at the foot of the mountain, but God will guide you up the difficult slopes to reach the glorious peak.

A good example of how God can help you attain your dreams even if you don’t know what to do can be seen in the story of Joseph. When Joseph was a teenager, he had a dream that he was going to be a great man, so great that his father and brothers would bow down to him. When Joseph told his brothers his dream, they were filled with envy and anger and hated Joseph. His brothers hated Joseph so much that they beat him up and sold him to a band of traders heading to Egypt. Joseph became a slave in the house of the Egyptian captain of the guard, Potiphar. I imagine when Joseph was sold into slavery, he must have thought that his dream was dead. How could he ever become a great man when he was a slave, all alone in a foreign land? Joseph had no idea how his dream would ever come to pass. But God was with Joseph. He prospered Joseph so much that his master, Potiphar, put him in charge of his entire household. Things seemed to be going well, and Joseph began to have hope that God somehow miraculously would help him reach his dreams of greatness. But then disaster struck. Potiphar’s wife tried to seduce Joseph and when Joseph refused her advances, she told her husband that Joseph tried to rape her. Potiphar was furious and threw Joseph into prison. Joseph faced yet another great challenge to his dream. Stuck in a dark and depressing dungeon, I’m sure Joseph couldn’t see a way in which he could be a great man when he was now a suffering prisoner. But Joseph kept his faith in God. He knew that God could make a way even when there seems to be no way. Joseph believed that even though he didn’t know how he could attain His dream, God knew the perfect way and would guide him to his divine destiny. One day, one of Joseph’s fellow prisoners, Pharaoh’s cupbearer, asked Joseph to help him interpret his dream. Joseph correctly interpreted the cupbearer’s dream and the cupbearer was restored to Pharaoh’s court. Some time later, Pharaoh had a disturbing dream but none of his wise men could interpret the dream for him. The chief cupbearer then remembered Joseph and told Pharaoh about Joseph, so Pharaoh summoned Joseph into his presence. Joseph correctly interpreted the dream for Pharaoh, and the ruler was so impressed that he made Joseph the Prime Minister of Egypt.

I’m sure even in his wildest dreams, Joseph didn’t expect the way God promoted him. But just like Joseph, God can lead you along a path to your dreams that you couldn’t even imagine. So don’t worry if you don’t know how you’ll even achieve your dreams. God knows how and that’s enough.

The important thing when you’re in a place where your dreams seem impossible is to stay in faith, keep trusting in God to bring your dreams to past. Keep obeying God’s commands and be faithful in the work He’s entrusted you to do. Keep giving your best, living a life of excellence. You’ll find that when you do what you can, God will do what you can’t. Keep believing, keep pursuing your dreams, and like He did for Joseph, God will guide you from the pit to the palace.

Don’t give up

One thing which I’ve been trying to develop in myself is a fighting spirit, a spirit that refuses to give up until the victory is won.

When I face an obstacle, my natural reaction is to get stressed and freeze up. I bury my head in the sand and hope that the problem will go away by itself. Now that’s not a positive way to deal with problems, so instead I’ve been trying to cultivate the habit of not giving up. Now, if I face a difficulty, I keep trying to find a solution to the problem until I see my breakthrough.

As Christians, we should always keep battling on because God has promised that we will be victorious if we don’t give up.

Promises where God guarantees us the victory can be found in Romans 8, where Paul tells us that God works all things for the good of those who love Him, and assures us that we are more than conquerors through God who loves us. In Jeremiah 29:11, the prophet tells us that God has plans to prosper us and Galatians 6:9 tells us to “not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” In 2 Chronicles 15:7, we are also encouraged to “be strong and do not give up, for your work will be rewarded”.

The Bible is full of stories of people facing obstacles and overcoming them by God’s grace.

David defeated the giant Goliath with just a pebble, overcoming a mighty warrior who was much bigger, stronger, more experienced and better equipped.

Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego refused to worship the King’s idol and were thrown into a fiery furnace. God delivered them from the flames by sending an angel to protect them in the fire and the escaped – victorious – without even the smell of smoke on their clothes.

Abraham was about 75 years old when God promised him a son. The patriarch had to learn not to give up as he waited patiently for 25 years before his wife delivered him his son Isaac.

The ultimate example of God giving us the victory when we don’t give up comes in the example of Christ. Our Lord was crucified and buried, but was raised to life. Christ’s victory over death teaches us to not give up, for even when our circumstances seem hopeless – dead and buried – God can resurrect our dead dreams.